 Ten
Things NOT to Say to Your Girlfriend If You Are Just Coming Out
By Gabrielle
(The
scary part is that it is all true. I actually said EVERYONE of
these things when I started dating my partner and was in the beginning
stages of coming out.)
10.
Tell her that just because you have sex with her it does not mean
you are a lesbian.
9. Tell her just how many times you have been complimented about
how good you are at giving head.
8. Ask her if she has any sexually transmitted diseases AFTER
you have slept with her.
7. Ask her to wear a dress when you are together, so people won't
"suspect".
6. Ask your girlfriend to answer all of your lesbian questions
as if she can answer for the entire lesbian community.
5. Ask her for help on how to pick up women.
4. Tell her you are afraid to move in with her because you are
concerned she might be upset if you decided to date men.
3. Discuss sex with men while you are in bed with her.
2. Keep a picture of your ex-boyfriend on your dresser positioned
where she can see it first thing in the morning.
1. Tell her that, if she were a man, you would be trying to marry
her.
You might
understand why some of the above items did not go over well with
my partner. The amazing thing is that she is still with me :).
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